What can't a man wash for a woman?

What can't men wash for women? The hottest topics on the Internet for 10 days revealed

Recently, the discussion on whether men should do women’s laundry has been a hot topic on social media. This article combines the hot content on the Internet in the past 10 days and uses structured data analysis to explore which clothes men should not wash for women, and attaches relevant controversial points and scientific basis.

1. List of Top 5 Controversial Clothes

2. Analysis of core dispute points

1.Health and safety level: A Weibo survey shows that 67% of women believe that intimate clothing should be disposed of by themselves to avoid cross-infection. Medical expert @Health Management Dr. Wang pointed out: "The remaining protein in clothing during menstruation needs special treatment. Ordinary cleaning may breed bacteria."

2.emotional psychological level: Zhihu's hot post "Partner Laundry Boundaries" received 120,000 likes. User "Xiaoyu Wutong" said: "It's not about distrust, but about retaining the last private space." Li Min, a doctor of psychology, commented: "This is essentially a manifestation of the establishment of a sense of boundaries."

3.technical operation level: In the Douyin #laundry overturn topic, 23% of the cases involve men washing women’s clothes by mistake. Typical problems include: lace deformation (38%), silk pilling (29%), and wool shrinkage (18%).

3. Comparison of scientific washing data

4. Collection of real cases from netizens

1.Douban group: Under the topic "My boyfriend washed my 2,000 yuan silk nightgown into a rag", 61% of the 387 replies suggested establishing a "laundry blacklist".

2.Xiaohongshu Hot Posts: #laundry division of labor agreement. The cumulative views of the hashtag reached 5.4 million. Popular solutions include: "partitioned processing" (he washes the coat and I wash the underwear), and "professional laundry delivery" (share the cost).

3.B station video: "Straight Man's Laundry Destruction Scene" has been played more than one million times, and the most frequently used words in the barrage are: "suffocation" (38%), "distressed" (29%), and "laughing to death" (22%).

5. Experts suggest solutions

1.hierarchical approach: The "Modern Family Laundry Guide" issued by the China Housekeeping Association recommends dividing clothes into three levels: regular clothes that can be machine washed (a partner is allowed to handle them), clothes that require special care (it is recommended that the owner takes care of them by themselves), and valuable clothes (cleaned by professional institutions).

2.technical remedies: Suning’s big data shows that the search volume for “washing machine for underwear” has increased by 215% in the past week, making mini washing machines a new choice for Chinese Valentine’s Day gifts.

3.emotional communication skills: Wu Xin, an expert on gender relations, emphasized in the live broadcast: "The key is not who will wash the items, but whether they can respect each other's needs for item care. It is recommended to resolve conflicts through 'item value description + joint decision-making'."

Summarize: In contemporary intimate relationships, the division of laundry has gone beyond housework and has become the epitome of the integration of values. Understanding material characteristics, respecting personal boundaries, and establishing scientific processes may be more practical than simply discussing "should it be washed or not?"